Signs of potential dating violence
Breakup violence among teens is a crime that has no zip code. A relationship ends and what happens is an emotional surge of uncontrollable anger.
It can be verbal or physical and sometimes, as in the case of Wayland, Mass., teen Lauren Astley, it can end in death. Researchers estimate that one in three young adults between the ages of 14 and 20 has experienced some form of dating violence.
It can be hard to tell when a behavior crosses the line from healthy to unhealthy or even abusive. Brittny’s father stepped in and ended the relationship for her.
How do you know if you are in an abusive relationship? 1) A push for quick involvement2) Jealousy3) Controlling behaviors4) Unrealistic expectations5) Isolation6) Blames others for problems and mistakes7) Makes everyone else responsible for his feelings8) Hypersensitivity9) Cruelty to animals and children10) "Playful" use of force during sex11) Verbal abuse12) Rigid sex roles13) Sudden mood swings14) Past battering (of you or on others)15) Threats of violence Have you ever wondered if there are some fundamental keys to avoiding a bad dating relationship and ultimately a bad marriage? The first is being able to be yourself while dating.Created from tragedy, Dating Abuse Stops Here, or DASH, was created to inspire and inform a community.The site offers fact sheets, information, and resources about teen dating abuse to help teens, their parents and friends understand more about this growing problem.Let your partner know that you won`t tolerate their cheating; make them choose between you and the other person. Unfortunately, in a dating relationship, there are two people involved who both feel very personally (and often very differently) about the subject.If they won't, cut the relationship off completely. If the person you are dating pressures you to have sex -- and does not respect your right to say 'no,' this is one of the biggest red flags you can get.